We live in a house that's nearly a century old. It has its charms (crown molding, hardwood floors, beautiful built-in cabinets), and it has its quirks (no insulation, drafty windows, a heating system that requires a manual water top-off every few days). One of the quirks of the house is that the downstairs half-bathroom, a later renovation made possible by sealing off the back entryway and converting it into a windowless closet of a room, is unprivately located between our stove and kitchen table. I mean, there's a door and everything, but there might as well not be. The noisy fan may give the illusion of privacy once you're cloistered within, but don't be fooled: everyone can still hear what's going on. If the spirit should happen to move you during dinner, you'd best take your business upstairs.
The other night, we were finishing up our spaghetti dinner. By "we," I mean "I" was finishing up. I'm always the last one done by a good 5 to 10 minutes, during which time I force the kids to remain at the table and give me details about their day. (It's amazing what you can find out when dessert is on the line.) This strategy doesn't work on Husband, however, who in his impatience had disappeared into the water closet.
Twirling my spaghetti, I began to hear some rumbling coming from that direction. The boys looked at each other and started giggling. A brief pause, and then the noises increased in volume and intensity. More giggling. By now, I recognized Husband's trademark theatrics. I paused with my spooled pasta halfway to my mouth while the sounds built up to an unsettling crescendo that defied physics in its interpretation of solid, liquid, and gas. I waited several seconds more to make sure he was done and to try to settle my gag reflex before finally allowing the still-suspended forkful of spaghetti to pass my lips. But then, mid-chew, it started up again, just as zealous as before—if not more so—like the encore of an overeager garage band or the delayed finale of the Waltham fireworks.
His symphony complete, Husband emerged to take a bow and bask in the accolades of the children:
Him: I knew it would be a crowd-pleaser.
Me: It was only 66.6% percent crowd-pleasing.
Him: I think any comedian would take those odds.
Honestly, I'm surprised it took him 11 years to think of it.
AWESOMENESS!!! BRAVO! I am actually as surprised as you are that it took 11 years to think of it. ;)
Posted by: ernie | January 14, 2014 at 03:03 PM
We, too, had the kitchen-bound bathroom. Right across from the stove. Five steps from the kitchen table. Sharing a wall with the dining room. Let's just say nobody's habits were private. Particularly in my sharp-eared Italian family which, says my French-Acadian husband, is obsessed with digestion. Aren't all Italians?
Posted by: Lisa Daigle | January 14, 2014 at 03:31 PM
OMG - I thought we were the only people who had a bathroom that felt like it was IN their kitchen!
Ours was an add-on to the house too but it was originally in a pantry with a swinging door at either side to go to the kitchen or the DR (it was beautiful, I'll never forgive my father for tearing it out).
When my father remodeled, to make the kitchen bigger (not!), he eliminated the pantry which put the bathroom in the kitchen.
Growing up we never had a fan in there though! But when we remodeled again, my husband put one in. But yeah, if you want to do your business (I mean, really do your business) - you're best to go upstairs.
Posted by: NancyB | January 15, 2014 at 04:05 PM
I understand how you feel. We have a very similar setup in our house. And it just feels so weird!
Posted by: Jeff @ Cheese-burger.net | January 19, 2014 at 12:38 AM